I have come out of a domestic violent situation of 26 years, and I have been involved in many personal development courses and womens courses that have shown me how to cope and deal with a life that had good times but in the main I was made to feel that I wasn't worth anything or even worse that I wasn't loved.

For a few years there it was a very trying time but I learnt that it is always rewarding when you persevere and find solutions and then life becomes good again.
I spent a lot of time at a domestic violence centre where I learnt how to conquer fears and build a life for myself free of abuse and have the womens intuition to do the right thing for everyone.

The results of that persevering are that I have gained tremendous self confidence that enabled me to do things I never thought I could do.

I have bought and sold 2 houses, and I have just finished having my very first house built, and the first time I bought a car from a car dealer by myself I got him way down in price, and that in itself is such a boost to my self confidence showing that when you really want or need something you some how find a way.

The loves of my life are my 4 beautiful children although 3 of them are now adults, and of course our little fluffy dog called brandy who really thinks he is a person.
One beautiful Mother who has supported me through extremely tough times and a Dad who gave me permission (though not needed) to free myself of the trauma in my marriage.

I made a decision to help and support those in trouble and School Bullying and Violence is such a widespread problem with catastrophic effects to some Children.

Yes there are many kinds of childhood reactions to Bullying and some of my friends have Children who have been at the mercy of bullies and my own Children have at times been harassed by others at school.

There were times when I was at my wits end with worry and suffered a lot of anxiety because no one appeared to know how to stop Bullying in School and it seemed like no one could help me, and I was at a loss as to what to do. I remember making far too many trips to the school to try to put a stop to the Bullying, but to no avail.

I was met with well meaning attitudes by some Teachers, and an indifference to discussing ways to prevent School Violence by other Teachers.

I guess that was because there are many variables affecting School Violence, henceforth the degree of violence can change and vary in the amount of times it happens and the severity of violence is not always the same.

Then there are the factors of School Violence, and Bullying is one such factor.

This leads me to the question,Bullying in Schools-do Teachers do enough and Parents and School Violence, does the answer to how to stop School Violence lie with the Parents or the Teachers or both.

How can the variables affecting School Violence and the factors of School Violence be dealt with?

The whole bullying situation was to much for the kids and as a result they hated going to school because they were scared of what would happen to them on the way to and from school while they were on the bus,and to me this raises a school safety awareness issue.

These bus Bullies as I call them are very clever and blame innocent kids for the trouble they cause and make life a living nightmare for our kids, but the bullying doesn't just happen on the bus, it happens in different ways, some sneaky and some open, throughout the day and sometimes our kids get into trouble by some teachers who have been convinced that our kids are to blame.

I very quickly got sick and tired of the emotional and mental damage this was doing to my kids and my friends feel the same, so knowing me and never giving up trying to solve things i got in there and fixed it.

This website and the information you gain from it is my way of giving something back for the help and support I have received over the last 10 years in particular,
to help, support and give the solutions of School Violence
to anyone who is being troubled by the physical, emotional and mental effects
of School Bullying and Violence.